{"id":9410,"date":"2025-02-03T10:24:06","date_gmt":"2025-02-03T09:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.heirsholdings.com\/hhpeople\/?p=9410"},"modified":"2025-02-03T16:40:53","modified_gmt":"2025-02-03T15:40:53","slug":"9410","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.heirsholdings.com\/hhpeople\/2025\/02\/9410","title":{"rendered":"My Detty December Highlights"},"content":{"rendered":"

Favourite concerts, events, and moments<\/strong><\/p>\n

This question immediately brings a song to mind: \u201cThere\u2019s no party like a Lagos party (TOE\u2019s Party)! At Lagos party, we don\u2019t bother nobody lol!<\/p>\n

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What?! If you didn\u2019t attend TOE\u2019s all-white party, did you even do Detty December? And the Group chairman\u2019s party (Futuristic)too. Honestly, after these nights, I was done with parties and concerts for the season. Why? Because we had the Big Three plus Flavour perform live and direct! I mean, who else was left to see after that? A time was truly had. After that event, it was more of chilling with friends and spending time with family, this was everything and\u00a0more\u00a0for\u00a0me.<\/p>\n

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Unplanned adventures \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

What\u2019s December without a little (or a lot of) chaos? Lol, Detty December is practically an adventure itself, no sleep, no rest, just vibes. Picture this, partying all night, getting home around 6 or 7 a.m., catching a few hours of sleep, dressing up again for day activities, back and then heading out again for another night of fun. Even as I narrate this, I feel the shame creeping up on me! Jessica, what?! December brings out the wildest side of us.<\/p>\n

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Random acts of kindness \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Beyond Valentine\u2019s Day, there\u2019s so much love to give. Visiting less-privileged homes is a great way to spread joy. It\u2019s not just about giving money or items, it\u2019s about spending time, sharing stories, and making people feel seen. Other ideas? Organizing small donation drives, I know of a girl who cooks and shares on the street, you can sponsor one of those, sponsoring school fees, or simply brightening someone\u2019s day with kind words. Love isn\u2019t seasonal, it\u2019s an everyday action.<\/p>\n

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Finding love during the holidays<\/strong><\/p>\n

Oh, the stories I could tell! Holiday romance hits differently, especially when the IJGB crowd (I Just Got Back) storms town. Their energy is unmatched, and they add an extra spark to the season. Fun is guaranteed, and sometimes, you even meet someone interesting. But as for the details? Let\u2019s just say I\u2019ll keep those to myself for now! \u00a0lol<\/p>\n

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Budget-friendly holidays? \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

These days, there\u2019s nothing budget friendly. With flight costs skyrocketing, every trip feels like a full-blown national budget. But we still find a way to enjoy ourselves because what is life without a little splurging?<\/p>\n

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Valentine’s Day Moments \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

My most memorable Valentine\u2019s Day memory<\/p>\n

Valentine\u2019s Day always brings surprises, and there\u2019s one memory that stands out for me, but you’ll have to come back Tomorrow for that gist. Wink<\/p>\n

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Creative date night ideas\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

For couples, think outside the box, plan a themed date night at home, cook a meal together, visit an upscale restaurant for a date night, book a couple spa date or even take a pottery\/ painting class. For singles, a self-love date night is perfect. Treat yourself to a spa day or go to that fancy restaurant you\u2019ve been eyeing. Dates don\u2019t always need company to be magical.<\/p>\n

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Relationship goals for 2025 \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

For 2025, it\u2019s all about building stronger connections whether it\u2019s through better communication, shared goals, or simply spending more quality time together. For singles, the goal might be to focus on self-growth and being open to new possibilities. Whatever it is, it should bring peace and happiness.<\/p>\n

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Love Stories and Mishaps \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

How we met, the most unusual love story<\/p>\n

Love finds us in the strangest ways and at unexpected places, through a random event, or even a misdialled number. I met my fiance at one time at the club. It was a 3-plus-year relationship.<\/p>\n

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Valentine\u2019s Day fails and wins. \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

From gifts that miss the mark to grand surprises, Valentine\u2019s Day always brings a mix of highs and lows. Once, a friend\u2019s partner forgot Valentine\u2019s Day which was an entirely big failure. On the flip side, there was a surprise candlelit dinner set up by the guy who became the talk of the group chat for weeks. Every Valentine\u2019s Day teaches us something new about love and effort.<\/p>\n

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Ever used a dating app?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t because there are so many guys on the streets! That said, my cousin met her husband on Tinder. He\u2019s a Caucasian – wonderful guy \u2013 and they now have a beautiful baby boy together. She is living the princess lifestyle. It\u2019s incredible how technology is helping people find love across continents.<\/p>\n

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Their story is proof that love truly knows no boundaries.<\/p>\n

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