{"id":2425,"date":"2017-04-03T12:10:34","date_gmt":"2017-04-03T12:10:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heirsholdings.com\/hhpeople\/?p=2425"},"modified":"2017-07-03T18:31:09","modified_gmt":"2017-07-03T18:31:09","slug":"office-gossip-is-it-necessary-to-know-everything-about-your-partners-previous-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.heirsholdings.com\/hhpeople\/2017\/04\/office-gossip-is-it-necessary-to-know-everything-about-your-partners-previous-relationships","title":{"rendered":"OFFICE GOSSIP: Is it\u00a0necessary to know everything about your partner\u2019s previous relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We asked. You replied:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No. I believe that the past is the past!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Toni Fagbohunlu, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No, there should be some degree of trust.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Bernard Abang, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No, but it\u2019s important for your partner to share key life events, lest they jeopardise the viability of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Oluwatoyin Oyedele, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Yes. Knowledge of their past experiences and the impact it had on them will help understand them better.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>David Braimoh, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No, though there are important topics that should be discussed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Dr Akinbiyi Oke, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No. It could introduce unnecessary worry.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Kunle Suleiman, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Nope. Deceive me and let me be happy!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Abimbola Adekanye, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Yes. Something could crop up at the most inopportune time and kill the relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Jumoke Okusaga, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No. Old things have passed away.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Kikelomo Oni, Avon HMO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">It is not o. I cherish my beauty sleep. I don\u2019t want anything keeping me up at night thinking. My eyes are already red even when I have enough sleep. I can\u2019t afford them getting any redder.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Atinuke Kolade, HH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Yes, it is. You need to know the history and experience of your partner in order to guide your future actions and relationship with her.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>James Akpan, Heirs Insurance<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No, it&#8217;s absolutely not necessary. Old things have passed away. Don&#8217;t spoil a good thing digging up old dusty stuff.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Tope Adubi, HH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">I think it is necessary to know the basic\/important things about your partner\u2019s previous relationship but not necessarily everything. Why? Because there are somethings that are better left unsaid.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Gloria Agugua, HH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">No, it isn&#8217;t necessary. As long as he is not keeping from you the location of 5 bodies he has buried across the country, you should be ok. Sometimes we all stub our toes when the past and the present meet.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Chidinma Ugbojiaku, Tenoil<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>\u2026.and the Nays have it!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em><strong>Over to you. Do you agree? What comment do you like best?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We asked. You replied: \u00a0 No. I believe that the past is the past! Toni Fagbohunlu, Avon HMO \u00a0 No, there should be some degree of trust. Bernard Abang, Avon HMO \u00a0 No, but it\u2019s important for your partner to share key life events, lest they jeopardise the viability of the relationship. 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